This "gentleman" that is married & looking, and not only allows, but condones his son's vandalism, has called me selfish and a social misfit.
aural_fixations (7/30/2008 4:31:12 PM): Our definitions of "fun" are likely not the same.
mike miller (7/30/2008 5:07:37 PM): want to have some fun
aural_fixations (7/30/2008 5:07:52 PM): I'm sure our definitions of "fun" are different.
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mike miller (8/2/2008 6:07:29 AM): want to have some fun?
aural_fixations (8/2/2008 6:07:42 AM): Our definitions of fun are not the same.
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mike miller (9/5/2008 5:09:23 PM): Want to have some fun?
aural_fixations (9/5/2008 5:09:36 PM): I don't think our ideas of "fun" are the same.
mike miller (9/5/2008 5:09:48 PM): lol...whats yours
aural_fixations (9/5/2008 5:10:00 PM): I'm having fun chatting, reading and watching tv.
mike miller (9/5/2008 5:10:32 PM): hummmm wanted a partener here
aural_fixations (9/5/2008 5:10:41 PM): See, I was right.
mike miller (9/5/2008 5:10:58 PM): so what do you call what i want
aural_fixations (9/5/2008 5:11:10 PM): Cheating on my husband.
mike miller (9/5/2008 5:11:24 PM): no not by masterbating
aural_fixations (9/5/2008 5:11:38 PM): Any sexual intimacy whatsoever is cheating.
mike miller (9/5/2008 5:12:31 PM): nooo
mike miller (9/5/2008 5:12:41 PM): do you masterbate by yourself
aural_fixations (9/5/2008 5:12:45 PM): According to myself and my husband, yes.
aural_fixations (9/5/2008 5:13:00 PM): Any sexual intimacy...outside the marriage... is cheating.
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mike miller (10/6/2008 11:50:49 PM): I was looking for a partener
aural_fixations (10/6/2008 11:50:54 PM): Good luck.
mike miller (10/6/2008 11:51:45 PM): would you not be interested?
aural_fixations (10/6/2008 11:51:57 PM): Nope. I'm happily married.
mike miller (10/6/2008 11:52:05 PM): same here
mike miller (10/6/2008 11:53:15 PM): ever try it
aural_fixations (10/6/2008 11:54:04 PM): No, I would never try it.
mike miller (10/6/2008 11:54:22 PM): really..can i ask age?
aural_fixations (10/6/2008 11:54:30 PM): 36
mike miller (10/6/2008 11:54:52 PM): 39 here
mike miller (10/6/2008 11:54:58 PM): why
aural_fixations (10/6/2008 11:55:19 PM): Why what?
mike miller (10/6/2008 11:56:05 PM): never try phone or online sex
aural_fixations (10/6/2008 11:56:22 PM): No. Might as well get cyber-drunk.
aural_fixations (10/6/2008 11:56:28 PM): Besides, that would be cheating.
mike miller (10/6/2008 11:57:12 PM): no it wouldnt..and it can be very satisfying and not conplicated
aural_fixations (10/6/2008 11:57:45 PM): by the definition set by my husband and myself, it would be cheating.
aural_fixations (10/6/2008 11:57:58 PM): Sharing ANY intimacies outside the marriage is cheating.
mike miller (10/6/2008 11:58:19 PM): ok..can i see pic/
aural_fixations (10/6/2008 11:58:26 PM): My profile.
mike miller (10/6/2008 11:59:16 PM): you hot
mike miller (10/7/2008 1:08:34 AM): you know im only up this late because my sone took off with friends to tee pee some houses and he is not home yet..he did just call though
aural_fixations (10/7/2008 1:09:05 AM): I would ground my son for the rest of his life if he did that to someone.
mike miller (10/7/2008 1:10:11 AM): thats funny...why...he is a good kid no drugs god grades....honest
aural_fixations (10/7/2008 1:10:20 AM): Vandalism.
aural_fixations (10/7/2008 1:10:44 AM): I'm a pretty strict mom when it comes to respecting others.
mike miller (10/7/2008 1:11:36 AM): you shouldnt be that way...he will make up for lost time
mike miller (10/7/2008 4:48:53 PM): what kind of volunteering
aural_fixations (10/7/2008 4:49:03 PM): I help new moms.
aural_fixations (10/7/2008 4:49:16 PM): Well, that's what I was doing today.
mike miller (10/7/2008 4:50:03 PM): like Parents as teachers?
aural_fixations (10/7/2008 4:50:26 PM): Well, not exactly.
aural_fixations (10/7/2008 4:50:48 PM): There are a few new moms around here with multiples (triples, quads). I help them out.
mike miller (10/7/2008 4:51:17 PM): oh ok
mike miller (10/7/2008 5:04:35 PM): so have you ever had sex without being married?
aural_fixations (10/7/2008 5:04:57 PM): I have a 9 year old son. I've been married 4 months.
mike miller (10/7/2008 5:06:06 PM): thought you may have been married before
aural_fixations (10/7/2008 5:06:12 PM): Nope.
mike miller (10/7/2008 5:06:32 PM): so you were easy LOL
aural_fixations (10/7/2008 5:06:43 PM): I've never been with someone that I wasn't in a relationship with.
mike miller (10/7/2008 5:08:39 PM): man Im tired and horny
aural_fixations (10/7/2008 5:08:48 PM): oy.
mike miller (10/7/2008 5:09:24 PM): ?..dont know abbrev
aural_fixations (10/7/2008 5:09:38 PM): It isn't an abbreviation for anything.
aural_fixations (10/7/2008 5:09:41 PM): oy vey.
mike miller (10/7/2008 5:10:02 PM): im still inthe dark
aural_fixations (10/7/2008 5:10:18 PM): "goodness" "oh my gosh" "i can't believe he's saying that".
mike miller (10/7/2008 5:11:26 PM): oh..did that bothere you..was just kind of talking outloud
aural_fixations (10/7/2008 5:11:37 PM): Yeah. I don't like to hear about that kind of stuff.
aural_fixations (10/7/2008 5:11:43 PM): The tired part was fine..
aural_fixations (10/7/2008 5:11:52 PM): The other part... gross.
mike miller (10/7/2008 5:12:22 PM): nothing gross about it..just a state of feeling ...you have them too
aural_fixations (10/7/2008 5:12:35 PM): I throw up and don't talk about it..
aural_fixations (10/7/2008 5:12:44 PM): It's natural, sure... but still gross to share.
mike miller (10/7/2008 5:13:11 PM): strange..thats not normal
aural_fixations (10/7/2008 5:13:16 PM): I don't want to hear about anyone's sexual anything. It truly makes me uncomfortable.
mike miller (10/7/2008 5:14:19 PM): im not hitting on you or anything.....but it is still very out of the norm
aural_fixations (10/7/2008 5:14:36 PM): I'm definitely not a cookie cutter kind of gal.
mike miller (10/7/2008 5:16:09 PM): so how do you talk with your girl friends..hang out at sometime they BS about what they have done
aural_fixations (10/7/2008 5:16:16 PM): We don't. Ever.
aural_fixations (10/7/2008 5:16:32 PM): They don't like to share that kind of stuff either.
mike miller (10/7/2008 5:17:03 PM): dont take this question wrong ok...what religion are you
aural_fixations (10/7/2008 5:17:10 PM): Eclectic Wiccan
mike miller (10/7/2008 5:21:01 PM): that is an all about yourself religion that lacks in social compasion...
aural_fixations (10/7/2008 5:21:12 PM): So be it.
mike miller (10/7/2008 5:25:55 PM): im soory but i will let you be..I cannot alow myself to be exposed to such a selfish belief...it fosters an unproductive society and communisium...think about and try to care about the whole being and not just yourself and what makes you happy....sacrafice and compasion is what saved our soles
aural_fixations (10/7/2008 5:26:27 PM): Selfish, such as... me helping newborn mothers, and volunteering in many other ways in my community?
aural_fixations (10/7/2008 5:27:03 PM): Me, not being compassionate in feeling that vandalism (tee peeing) is wrong?
aural_fixations (10/7/2008 5:27:31 PM): Me... not having social grace... by not discussing my private life with my friends...
aural_fixations (10/7/2008 5:28:01 PM): Me.. being immoral... by being militantly loyal to my husand?
mike miller (10/7/2008 5:28:20 PM): ...you dont get it..so ..you dont count...your a social mifit...see ya
aural_fixations (10/7/2008 5:28:31 PM): Take care...
mike miller (10/7/2008 5:28:47 PM): ok
